Rabu, 06 Februari 2013

leader-follower friendship

Who is the leader and who is the follower in my friendship?
I am the leader among my close friends. The 'leader' here is not interpreted as a bossy person who command the others to do this and that. Nonono..
It is always me who choose where to go, where and what to eat, etc.
It just vain to ask them because their answer will be "up to you" or "whatever"
What a typical Indonesian answers... Kinda irritates me.
I want my friends to say where and what they want. I have already said that too but they answered if they say it then we will get baffled because A wants this but B wants that, so it is easier to follow one person.
o-em-gee.. then I said we can do it alternately. I wanna have an argument like that about where to go and what to do. Perhaps it will be more fun. Why is it always me who decide all of those things?
Seriously they are too much! If I keep quiet, not deciding anything, they will also keep quiet and not giving any idea.
But still I love my best friends :) I can not loathe them just because of this, right?

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